Tag: Marriage week

  • Marriage research: Harry teams up with Professor Galena Rhoades

    Marriage research: Harry teams up with Professor Galena Rhoades

    As Marriage Week 7th-14th February 2023 draws to a close, Harry Benson, Sorted Columnist and Research Director at the Marriage Foundation closes this series with a brief personal update on the progress he is making with his own PhD.

    Harry writes: I’m half way through and have finished my third rewrite! I’ve got 25,000 words on paper and at least 20 tables and charts. The results are interesting and new. So it’s mostly now a case of presenting them in a way that makes my supervisors smile rather than cringe! One super thing is that I’m using some of the results for a new joint paper with Professor Galena Rhoades at the University of Denver. We’re aiming for one of the top two family journals. Next steps are awaiting my supervisors’ verdict on my latest effort. Then I have a couple of new projects to start, get this journal article written, and reconnect with my fellow students back in Bristol.

    May your marriage, and marriages of those you love, flourish!

    Main photo courtesy of Harry Benson.

  • Marriage research: The latest publications

    Marriage research: The latest publications

    As part of Marriage Week 7-14 February 2023 Harry Benson, Sorted Columnist and Research Director at the Marriage Foundation shares the latest publications based on academic research.

    Harry writes: Our latest reports Rock ‘n Rollers twice as likely to divorce and Attitudes to Marriage and Commitment and indeed all of our research can be found here

    We have a new leaflet out summarising our work and our most important findings

    Our glossy A4 brochure Marriage Works includes the cover of key research papers and the accompanying press releases.

    Harry’s books

    Commit or Quit – The Two Year Rule and other Rules for Romance

    With ‘rules for romance’ road-tested by my own children, this is for those in their 20s and 30s. It is about how to choose well and how not get stuck

    What Mums Want (And Dads Need To Know)

    Our bestseller that reached #11 on Amazon, Tells our own back-from-the-brink story. The secret: husband, love your wife, and she will love you right back, in that order

    If you shop on Amazon, you can now support our work by using Smile. They give us 0.5% of whatever you spend. Just put Marriage Foundation in the charity box, it’s easy!

    Photo: Courtesy of Harry Benson

  • Marriage research: Marriage Foundation in the media

    Marriage research: Marriage Foundation in the media

    Harry Benson, Sorted Columnist and Research Director at the Marriage Foundation shares some of the stories which have hit the headlines.

    Sunday Telegraph Couples who marry because of family pressure 50 per cent more likely to divorce
    Harry Benson, Marriage Foundation’s research director, commented: “What this research shows conclusively is that the reasons why people get married has a significant material impact to whether they stay together. While this might seem obvious, this has never been quantified. But the message is clear. Get married for love and your future together and not because it is either expected of you or because of family pressure.”

    Sunday Express: Married pop and rock stars are TWICE as likely to get divorced – study
    Top actors and sports stars also have a higher chance of splitting up than non-celebrities but musicians are top of the divorce charts. Researchers from the Marriage Foundation have been tracking nearly 500 A-list celebrities who tied the knot between 2001-2010 in ceremonies which featured in Hello or similar magazines.

    Financial Times: Lawyers urge UK ministers to speed up reform of cohabitation rights
    Harry Benson, research director at the Marriage Foundation, a charity that champions the institution of marriage, said introducing a new law would effectively remove the need for couples to make a decision on their future relationship commitment. Also what is the legal definition of cohabitation — is it when couples move in together? How is that defined? When they bring the toothbrush or the suitcases?”

    Mail on Sunday: As it’s revealed rock stars are TWICE as likely to divorce as the average person, here are the couples who’ve beat the odds – and the musicians who weren’t so lucky
    Harry Benson, research director of the think tank and study author, suggests the reason celebrities are bucking this trend, despite being at the top of the income scale, is fame. In the paper he writes that the ‘ego and opportunity’, which go hand in hand with being a famous name, is the most likely explanation for the group’s higher divorce rates. This potentially relationship-destroying combination is particularly in evidence with musicians due to their lifestyle, he says.

    The Marriage Foundation have also appeared or been quoted in Conservative Woman, Daily Mail, Daily Mirror, Independent, i paper, Mail on Sunday, The Week,Times, BBC Radio 5 live and BBC Radio Bristol

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  • Marriage research: ‘Sliding’ into marriage linked to high divorce rates

    Marriage research: ‘Sliding’ into marriage linked to high divorce rates

    Throughout Marriage Week 7th-14th February 2023, Harry Benson, Sorted Columnist and Research Director at the Marriage Foundation shares a series of daily articles about the latest academic research.

    Harry writes: Couples who slide into marriage have higher divorce rates than those who decide, according to our survey of 905 ever married adults. It’s all about commitment! Couples who “slide into marriage”, because of family pressure, are up to 50 per cent more likely to divorce than those who marry for love.

    Our survey looked at 905 couples who married for the first time after the year 2000 in the era of online dating. They were asked how much they agreed or disagreed with each of twelve reasons for why they might have got married.

    Those who said they: “felt they had to marry due to family pressure” i.e. due to social pressure, had a significantly higher probability of divorce at just 34 per cent compared to 23 per cent of couples who did not identify these reasons.

    Those who agreed that their marriage “just kind of happened” i.e. slide into it, had a 29 per cent probability of divorce over the duration of the study compared to 22 per cent of those who disagreed.

    In contrast, those who were more intentional about their marriage, who agreed that they married “in order to build our life together” i.e. as the cornerstone of life together, were more likely to stay together. They divorced at an overall rate of just 24 per cent compared to 37 per cent among those who did not agree.

    Read our report here

    Main photo courtesy of Harry Benson

  • Marriage research: Births outside marriage above 50% for first time

    Throughout Marriage Week 7th-14th February 2023, Harry Benson, Sorted columnist and Research Director at the Marriage Foundation, shares a series of daily articles about the latest academic research.

    Harry writes: Births outside of marriage have been hovering just below 50 per cent for the past decade. A sharp increase above 50 per cent in 2021 is almost certainly a knock-on effect of the ban and restrictions on marriage during lockdown in the previous year.

    New births data for 2021 from the Office for National Statistics have shown a sharp fall in births within marriage to below 50% for the first time. But have a deeper look and you can see that the share of births within marriage has fallen between 5% and 8% across all socio-economic groups. This is a phenomenon that has affected everyone.

    In typical years, as many as one in six marriages take place either just before or just after their baby is born. Many of these couples will have been forced to delay their wedding. Although the overall trend remains down, we should expect to see some sort of rebound in births within marriage in 2022.
    Read my full comment here.

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